So much to say….

So much to say but a lot of things are better left unspoken as either they would not be read in the right way or understood by many. Also the world has become so overly sensitive, and everyone is talking about freedom of speech and having your own opinion. but neither is really wanted or accepted if it isn’t in line with their own.

Most things I have said have been proven many years later.  There is nothing but the truth coming from me, I keep it real, but honesty and keeping it real is too much to handle for he majority. Most prefer to be a sheep following in the herd than think for themselves. They prefer to follow, believe what the industry and media tells them. Prefer to have a smart phone and have an app do the “thinking” instead of being individual and doing their own thing. Even create.

I still value the old traits, honesty, reliability, respect and courtesy, which sadly have come rare in this world these days. I keep being told I am too smart and expect too much of people. because I think this way and have values, but most don’t even get where I am coming from.

I also believe in “silence is golden” therefore, this will be the last blog entry I make. With that I wish you all farewell. Enjoy the silence. 

Of course I am still around on Twitter. 


Rejection leaves scars too

Do you people out there actually still have any decency? Do they know that rejection can leave very deep physical scars just like abuse too?

Rejection and ignoring someone for no reason is plain rude, and shows lack of character. It can damage someone pretty good too. Don’t promise to keep in touch or pretend to be very keen on someone when you aren’t as not acting upon your words can cause as much psychological damage as actual abuse.

THINK before you act!

Also if someone takes the time to write to you and it’s a kind or helpful letter / e-mail / message, take the time to at least reply, even if it is only one sentence, at least thank them for contacting you!

The only time it is actually best and okay to ignore someone is when they are being rude, or clearly just wants to start / cause drama. No need to feed the bullies and trolls with the wrong sort of attention they seek, ever.

Being smart

Having a brain that hardly ever shuts off, analyzing and even psychoanalyzing the world all the time is making one lonely these days, as being truly smart isn’t always seen as such. Trying to relate to people who have no idea what one is talkign about, giving you that look and feel of being mentally unstable or whatever else they may think of one.

When actually one simply realized that conforming to the mass population’s process of thoughts would be a complete waste of time, brain cells and energy. Sadly the majority of the population is so narrow-minded that they assume only someone having sucessfully completed courses on paper, or speaking various languages is smart. Fact is, if I would have went to University I would have done just as well if not even better as most there.

Only because I think different, am random, bizarre and yes even weird in a positive way, short everything that isn’t class “normal” (whereas the question here arises, what is normal anyway?) they think I’m stupid or whatever. It’s always shocking to see how many strangers out there assume they know someone, when in fact they have no clue. No time was spent enough to even remotely near enough know someone, yet they judge. They make up a picture inside their heads, based on their own narrow-mindness and malfunctions and perpetrate them onto the other person.

Because they aren’t as honest, open and friendly they can’t understand someone else is. Because someone is smart and speaks wise words they can’t follow or understand, they judge them as being different would be such a bad thing.

We are all individuals, humans, and therefore should be able to be that, individual! Too many humans are sheep these days, following the media, believing everything the industry tells them. They think they know someone if they have seen pictures on the internet, or read one statement or comment by them.

Some people may act and react very different as to yourself in certain situation or subjects due to their past experiences and knowledge. If society only had half an open mind as they claim they do they would not judge as quickly and wrongly as they do, and would accept certain people’s personalities as they are!

If you speak German check out this blog from Christian Wunderlich

Back in the nineties there was this guy named Christian Wunderlich who played in a soap, then recorded some music. I never watched the TV show he played in, and never knew about him or his singing, but met him in Cologne one day and thought he was a nice lad. Having lived abroad obviously I never really heard of him again, but came across his blog the other day. It is very well written and I think everyone who speaks German should check it out: