So much to say….

So much to say but a lot of things are better left unspoken as either they would not be read in the right way or understood by many. Also the world has become so overly sensitive, and everyone is talking about freedom of speech and having your own opinion. but neither is really wanted or accepted if it isn’t in line with their own.

Most things I have said have been proven many years later.  There is nothing but the truth coming from me, I keep it real, but honesty and keeping it real is too much to handle for he majority. Most prefer to be a sheep following in the herd than think for themselves. They prefer to follow, believe what the industry and media tells them. Prefer to have a smart phone and have an app do the “thinking” instead of being individual and doing their own thing. Even create.

I still value the old traits, honesty, reliability, respect and courtesy, which sadly have come rare in this world these days. I keep being told I am too smart and expect too much of people. because I think this way and have values, but most don’t even get where I am coming from.

I also believe in “silence is golden” therefore, this will be the last blog entry I make. With that I wish you all farewell. Enjoy the silence. 

Of course I am still around on Twitter. 

Questions and Answers

Life has so many questions yet so little answers.  

Sometimes it seems as if you get nowhere, or even taking steps backwards when you move forward and give it all you can to reach your destination, the goal you set for yourself. Then it seems everyone else gets everything laid out for them, but nothing ever is for you. You got to climb wall after wall, carry weight after weight on your shoulders, whilst others around you seem to have springs under their steps.

It is reality, some have it easier, through money or knowing the right people, but they may have other struggles and issues even they may not admit to them. Hardly anyone is truly happy or satisfied with their life, yet some chose to pretend and are better at pretending and lying to themselves as well as everyone else than others 

Stop looking at what others have. Make your choices, find your path and be happy with what you achieve and got. It is your life, not anyone else’s.

Sometimes

Sometimes it is necessary to limit or eliminate your contact with certain individuals who bring you more misery than peace and do not reflect or allow you to be the person that you truly are or aspire to become. Instead, surround yourself with positive thinkers who are not always creating drama. Choose people who make your day brighter simply by being around them. Find those whom you admire; you are proud to know; and who support, motivate and encourage you to grow.

Rejection leaves scars too

Do you people out there actually still have any decency? Do they know that rejection can leave very deep physical scars just like abuse too?

Rejection and ignoring someone for no reason is plain rude, and shows lack of character. It can damage someone pretty good too. Don’t promise to keep in touch or pretend to be very keen on someone when you aren’t as not acting upon your words can cause as much psychological damage as actual abuse.

THINK before you act!

Also if someone takes the time to write to you and it’s a kind or helpful letter / e-mail / message, take the time to at least reply, even if it is only one sentence, at least thank them for contacting you!

The only time it is actually best and okay to ignore someone is when they are being rude, or clearly just wants to start / cause drama. No need to feed the bullies and trolls with the wrong sort of attention they seek, ever.

Being smart

Having a brain that hardly ever shuts off, analyzing and even psychoanalyzing the world all the time is making one lonely these days, as being truly smart isn’t always seen as such. Trying to relate to people who have no idea what one is talkign about, giving you that look and feel of being mentally unstable or whatever else they may think of one.

When actually one simply realized that conforming to the mass population’s process of thoughts would be a complete waste of time, brain cells and energy. Sadly the majority of the population is so narrow-minded that they assume only someone having sucessfully completed courses on paper, or speaking various languages is smart. Fact is, if I would have went to University I would have done just as well if not even better as most there.

Only because I think different, am random, bizarre and yes even weird in a positive way, short everything that isn’t class “normal” (whereas the question here arises, what is normal anyway?) they think I’m stupid or whatever. It’s always shocking to see how many strangers out there assume they know someone, when in fact they have no clue. No time was spent enough to even remotely near enough know someone, yet they judge. They make up a picture inside their heads, based on their own narrow-mindness and malfunctions and perpetrate them onto the other person.

Because they aren’t as honest, open and friendly they can’t understand someone else is. Because someone is smart and speaks wise words they can’t follow or understand, they judge them as being different would be such a bad thing.

We are all individuals, humans, and therefore should be able to be that, individual! Too many humans are sheep these days, following the media, believing everything the industry tells them. They think they know someone if they have seen pictures on the internet, or read one statement or comment by them.

Some people may act and react very different as to yourself in certain situation or subjects due to their past experiences and knowledge. If society only had half an open mind as they claim they do they would not judge as quickly and wrongly as they do, and would accept certain people’s personalities as they are!

Ignorance and aggression

It’s really a sad and scary development to see how aggressive and ignorant people have become. It started with the millennium and has gone worse since.

Politeness and manners are free. It used to be the case that one with a bad attitude and mouth was standing out, these days kind and friendly people are the ones rare and standing out. It’s shocking. 

Same on the roads, too much road rage. Hardly anyone keeps to the speed limit. Yes it is annoying at times, and does not make sense but it’s there for one reason or another. Keeping no safety distance or overtaking someone going the speed limit, or even 10 km over it is clearly unnecessary. 

The rise of negativity and trying to put others down, to feel better about themselves has increased to a scary level too. 

It’s really sad to see how things have developed the past fifteen years and I really wonder where this all will lead to within the next five years. 

Why hide it? Just be who you are!

It’s such a shame so many people hide their real me.

They rather be seen for what they aren’t than be true to themselves. Why go through this? Just be who you are!

It’s such a shame that men and women have to pretend and live an unhappy life, or rather exist in an unhealthy and unhappy existence because they are too scared to be who they are. You know if anyone has a problem with the real you, they are the one’s with the problem.

Like C. I am almost certain he is gay but tries to hide it and even does not want to admit it to himself. Even the signs are obvious.

Not only looking after yourself as you are, but no man over thirty would get hard being around super skinny “females” with a body of a ten year old boy. Unless they have a certain illness which is a serious issue, or are hiding who they truly are. With C. I think it’s the second one.

So many professional men and women have to hide being transgender, transsexual or homosexual. It shouldn’t be this way. A human should never be judged on that. Ever. The ones judging, the ones thinking it is not normal, or whatever else are the ones who are not normal and have a problem, as they create the problem without there being one in the first place.

Life and let life. Enjoy life! BE YOU!